Episode 1. What Makes People Happy? - Spider Chart

Question:

Can we make a podcast?

Key Points:

  • Title for the podcast is based on a story about John Lennon where he told his teacher that she didn't understand life.
  • People are happy when they spend time being around other people with whom they enjoy being around
  • Deep relationships are what really matter, not just the number of people you know
  • Schedule time to be around other people you enjoy. It's worth the effort
  • Make friends with your co-workers by scheduling time with them to create a deeper relationship
  • Most people try to be happy by accomplishing things. This does work but only for a short amount of time; then it wears off
  • Using a "spider chart" (see below) helps people to focus on all the important aspects of life and not just one
  • It's hard to focus on all 7 aspects of life at the same time
  • Every choice that we make has side effects: making us happy in one dimension but also less happy in other dimensions
  • Saying "Yes" to one thing means you are saying "No" to someone else
  • Decision making is hard because we are given time constraints on decisions, so we cannot think about how every decision effects every dimension of our lives

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